Mastering the Fundraising Game: My Lessons from 300+ Startups

After working with over 300 startups and seeing hundreds of millions raised, I can tell you: fundraising isn’t sales. It’s an entirely different game with its own rules, psychology, and winning strategies. Let’s look at mastering fundraising for your startup.

The Fundamentals: Why Fundraising Isn’t Sales

Mastering fundraising requires a fundamentally different mindset than sales. While salespeople focus on immediate value exchange, fundraising is about long-term potential and relationship building. Your goal isn’t to close a deal—it’s to find a partner who believes in your vision as much as you do.

The Numbers: What Mastering Fundraising Really Looks Like

An analysis of 200 successful Series A and Seed rounds reveals the stark reality of what it takes to raise capital:

Of the ones that were successful in raising money, they contacted 50 investors and secured meetings with 40 of them. The average fundraising cycle lasted 12.5 weeks (just under 100 days). Their pitch decks averaged 19 slides, but investors spent only 3 minutes and 44 seconds reviewing them via email. The most scrutinized slides when emailed were? Problem and Team slides.

The MOST Crucial Insight

Those who failed to raise money typically gave up within 6.7 weeks on average.

The lesson is clear—fundraising takes time. Persistence isn’t just helpful; it’s essential.

The Psychology: Inside the Investor’s Mind

The Risk vs. Greed Equation isn’t just theory—it’s the fundamental law of startup fundraising. Here’s how successful founders can manage this equation:

Building social proof through strategic advisors isn’t optional—it’s a cornerstone of reducing perceived risk. Create artificial scarcity with round size caps. Generate FOMO through parallel conversations. Most importantly, de-risk through continued, rapid execution and clear metrics throughout the course of your fundraising.

Big KEY

Want to know the paradox that kills most fundraising efforts? To get the money, you must first prove you don’t need it.

Investors want to follow momentum, not create it. That’s why continuing to make progress is so important even as you fundraise.

Mastering Fundraising: The Process

  1. Make a list of investors that are actually good targets for your round, thesis, and vertical. Make sure it is above 50 targets (see stats above on success).
  2. Figure out how you can reach these targets with a warm introduction. If you can’t get a warm introduction then get more targets.
  3. Batch your outreach to schedule meetings. Target 10-20 meetings per week for the first month to get through first meetings with as many possible. Try to get to 40 or more meetings (usually a zoom meeting for first meetings). By front loading the first meetings you are keeping investors on similar timelines which will create natural competition and urgency to keep moving.
  4. Follow up systematically. The investors will not say, “no” to you (they can’t because it will close off the option to invest in you). They will say, “This is interesting; please keep in touch,” which means “Continue to make progress and prove to me you don’t need the money.” Do just that: send monthly updates showcasing key metrics and milestones achieved.
  5. Follow their due diligence process.
  6. After about 50 first meetings with the requisite follow-ups as well as continued progress everything falls in place. You will literally have mastered fundraising because: a) your pitch is better, b) your terms are refine to market conditions from feedback with investors, c) your progress continues, and d) they know that you are pitching lots of investors. A potential lead investor or two are going to see this and want to set terms for investment before someone else does. You have lowered risk. You have increased greed.
  7. With two potential leads hopefully offering terms about the same time, it is time negotiate to get the deal that will get you a great partner, and not necessarily the best deal. Get the best investment partner on good terms. That’s winning
  8. Leverage the momentum of the finalized term sheet and lead investor to finish out your investment round. When one investor commits, will others follow. You are “marriage material” now. Use each commitment to create urgency with others still deciding.
  9. Oversubscribe only to get more value added investment partners into your company. Investors that will add value to your business and advocate for you. Possible even investors that will lead your next round.
  10. Complete the legal work, secure the cash, and get to work.

PS: Want to learn more about mastering fundraising add this book to your reading list for more info. And no investors won’t sign your NDAs. Here’s why.

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The X-Factor of Securing Investment: Why Conviction Beats Everything

You aren’t begging for money. You have a viable business opportunity that stands to make you and your investors rich. They need to place investment capital.

Thus you need to walk into every room with unshakeable conviction. Not arrogance—conviction. Investors aren’t just betting on your idea; they’re betting on your ability to execute against all odds and get them returns. If you don’t believe in the inevitability of your success, neither will they.

Present an opportunity, not a plea. Investors can either join your journey or watch from the sidelines as you build something extraordinary. Their choice.

Mastering fundraising means leading with conviction.

The Path Forward

The path to greatness isn’t just about thinking bigger—it’s about executing smarter. Your fundraising journey starts now. Build your list. Craft your story. Create momentum. The capital will follow.

Remember: The best founders don’t raise money—they build empires.


From “good ideas” to “funding success,” the gap is filled with persistence, strategy, and tireless execution. Every successful raise follows these patterns. Now it’s your turn to put them into action.

Reach out if you want to talk about mastering fundraising for your business.

Why I Don’t Sign NDAs (And Why You Probably Shouldn’t Ask)

Over my 20+ years of building startups, I’ve had multiple people ask me to sign NDAs for their new projects. It’s a great sign that people are always working on fresh ideas, and I’m honored that people want to share theirs with me. But signing an NDA? That’s a losing deal for everyone, and I don’t do it.

This has been talked about for years by others in varying ways, but I wanted to bring it all together in a form I could pass along to early-stage founders quickly. Hence this post. So if you already know the drill, head to my newsletter for other business and leadership insights. But if you haven’t heard, here’s why I’ll probably decline your NDA request:

  1. It signals distrust. Asking me to sign an NDA before you’ve shared a word is the equivalent of saying, “I don’t trust you.” And yet, you’re asking for my help? That’s a rough way to start a new relationship.
  2. It costs me time and money. Legal documents aren’t trivial. I’d have to pay a lawyer to review a contract without knowing if the idea even warrants that investment in legal work. No, I won’t “just sign it” because every contract is binding, whether I read it or not.
  3. Ideas aren’t rare. Harsh truth: Great ideas are everywhere. There is no idea marketplace, which tells us the value of an idea is zero. Execution, on the other hand, is what separates success from noise. If your idea is so fragile that disclosure alone could kill it, it’s already on shaky ground.
  4. It puts me at risk. If someone else shares a similar idea with me later, I could get caught in legal trouble through no fault of my own. Speaking from experience, I can tell you that I have heard the same idea in different forms or the same form many times. This is the nature of being an investor. Signing an NDA means stepping into liability I didn’t ask for.
  5. Trust is earned. If I had a history of breaking trust, you’d already know. You’d see it on the internet because reputation travels fast. If you have done your research and don’t believe I can be trusted, why are we having this conversation at all?
  6. It limits my ability to help you. The best thing I can do is talk about your startup to investors, partners, and potential hires. An NDA ties my hands and prevents me from connecting you to the very people who could make a difference.
  7. It can make you look amateurish. Not always, but often. Many experienced founders know NDAs are unnecessary barriers. A good investor or mentor isn’t going to sign one before hearing you out.
  8. Don’t give me your secret sauce. NDAs are often unnecessary because I don’t need to know the secret sauce to understand the value of what you are doing. If it is a special algorithm, formula, or widget, I don’t need to know how it works—I just need to be assured through validated testing that it gets the job done.

That said, NDAs have their place. Clients hiring me? Sure. Contractors working with sensitive data? Absolutely. Large corporations with established processes? Fine. But for an entrepreneur with a new idea, an NDA won’t make you look serious—it will just make sharing harder than it needs to be.

If your idea is in a delicate phase, only share it with people you trust. But remember—most ideas gain momentum when more people know about them, champion them, and want to see them succeed. The best strategy? Build something so compelling that people want to spread the word for you—no contract required.

The True Value of Entrepreneurial Competitions

Winning is often celebrated as the ultimate success, but it’s essential to understand that it doesn’t predict long-term success in business.

As the Entrepreneur-in-Residence at Rhodes College we run competitions to bring together our community to launch new ventures, but often we can lose sight of the true value of the work in the context of competition so I wrote this article to be shared with the campus community there, but it offers important lessons on business and competition generally so I wanted to post it here as well.


Entrepreneurial competitions, like an elevator pitch or venture challenge, are not just contests but milestones in a much larger journey.

Winning is often celebrated as the ultimate success, but it’s essential to understand that it doesn’t predict long-term success in business. Conversely, not winning isn’t a forecast of failure. Many businesses that launch come from individuals who will not clinch a prize.

Competition prizes are limited, but your potential is not.

You are limitless!

The purpose of these events extends beyond the immediate excitement. They are not merely contests, but collective endeavors to advance a multitude of ideas. We leverage these opportunities to help as many people as possible to refine their business ideas, articulate their visions, and network with like-minded individuals and mentors. It’s about creating a rally point where resources, feedback, and energy converge to propel everyone forward together – winning is independent of this and the least important outcome of the competition.

Competitions are objective platforms for growth and learning.

They serve as a practical exercise in the real-world dynamics of business pitching and development, offering a safe environment to experiment, learn, and evolve. Winning or not winning, every participant gains valuable insights into their entrepreneurial capabilities and the potential of their ideas.

We see these events as catalysts, not just for individual projects, but for fostering a vibrant entrepreneurial ecosystem. They are about moving together, leveraging our collective strengths, and helping as many ideas as possible to advance and mature.

Remember, the journey of entrepreneurship is not linear.

It’s a path of constant learning, adapting, and persisting. Whether you’re in the spotlight of victory or not, what truly matters is the resilience to continue, the insights gained, the friends and advisors found, and the relentless pursuit of improvement.

Embrace these competitions as opportunities to rally together, support one another, and drive forward the spirit of innovation.


Why losing a business competition competition is good for your startup. https://techcrunch.com/2009/11/28/winners-curse-why-losing-a-b-school-biz-plan-competition-may-be-good-for-your-startup/

Speaking at a Wedding on Lasting Partnership in Love & Business

I was recently asked to speak at the wedding ceremony of two of our founders (in separate businesses) that met in Memphis by participating in our accelerator. They asked me to speak on, and this is a direct quote: “Relating characteristics of 1) creating a great partnership as co-founders to build a successful company to 2) creating a great partnership in life / marriage for a successful relationship.” Here is what their prompt and their love inspired. I have altered the names and some facts to give some privacy to the couple. Enjoy and let me know what you think.

Spoken on the Occassion of Your Wedding

Good afternoon. I am Eric Mathews.  I’m not the best man.  And thankfully so.  Sam you are certainly the best man for putting up with James for these 9 plus years.  Nonetheless, it is a great honor to be here and be asked to speak. 

For those who don’t know me, I’m the first investor for many business partners who come to Memphis, Tennessee to build and launch a new, amazing technology based business.  James and Kimberly entered into our program in separate businesses in 2013 and found way more than business in Memphis – they found each other.  With this in mind, James and Kimberly asked me to speak at their wedding ceremony on how business partnerships and lifelong loving partnerships are, at their core, the same.  

For those gathered here today wondering, the answer is YES.  

I was apprehensive to speak in business terms at a wedding ceremony.  However, given the trust and love I’ve felt from and between James and Kimberly, I got comfortable with the words.  More so I hope their love that inspired these words will inspire each of us to bring more love and care back into our daily lives and to the world of business. James and Kimberly, I’m grateful for the trust you have placed in me here.  

So let’s start at the beginning and the first foundation.  In the first days of our business accelerator program, we have the new business partners review their personality types to better understand one another.  Next, we ask them to answer tough questions openly and honestly with each other.  We also place them into tough and uncomfortable situations where they will have to come together and rise and fall as a team.  This is all done because one the biggest causes of business failure is having a dysfunctional team with poor interpersonal dynamics.  I think we can all identify with the importance.  We all need strong partners that have complementary strengths to account for our weaknesses. We need the strength of honesty, when things are going wrong.  We seek mutual respect to understand that failure is an event and not a person.  We need the personal strength to accept and solve our own problems, our partners problems, and your collective problems without blaming the other person.  We need open communication so that nothing is hidden including unspoken expectations, personal needs, or opportunities for growth.  

All great partnerships require a daily commitment to these relationship principles to be lasting.

This leads to the next foundation that our entrepreneurs learn in Memphis: start with “why.”  Why do we wake up each day? What is our collective purpose and intent?  Purpose drives great entrepreneurship but also great love. You and your partner wake up with a shared purpose to change the world and each other for the better.  Money is not a sufficient motivator in business and marrying for money can lead to far worse.  Money is not sufficient because of the amount of sacrifice needed for mutual success.  You need a purpose around which you wake up everyday and are motivated to help each other succeed as individuals as well as a unit.  You will need to understand and contextualize your purpose so that you can celebrate the small victories, lift each other up in defeat, be excited to discover the unknown together, and to work together to leave the world a better place — these are the true rewards.  

All great partnerships require a daily commitment to purpose to be lasting in the good times and in the harder times.  

Finally, there is a step beyond the foundations of building a great team relationship and defining and living with great purpose.  A great team and a great purpose will get you started, but over time we’ve found that you need something that helps guide you over the long haul.  You need a manner in which you can evaluate whether your partnership is on track or whether you need to course correct.  You need a lens by which you can evaluate tough decisions where perhaps there are no good solutions or the opposite scenario where there are too many good options.  You need a way to evaluate the unexpected together.  We find that the best partners in life and in business mutually hold the same core values and beliefs. These guideposts are unique to each partnership and help all partners make great decisions daily in service of one another and the purpose and intent of their relationship.  

All great partnerships require a daily commitment to core values and beliefs to help them stay on track.  

Kimberly and James, arriving at a business accelerator in Memphis, I think we would all expect to find great business opportunities and great friendships.  However, I don’t think love and marriage would have been an outcome that any of us would have placed bets on in May of 2013. Yet here we are and it is testament to each of you.  You have the kind of love that empowers not only each other, but also empowers those gathered here today who can feel it and be better for it. 

May your commitment to each other, to great purpose, and to your core values and beliefs be your guide forever and always.    

Reviewing 15+ Years of Accelerator Dividends

This quarter GAN released my industry report on the past, present, and future of startup accelerators entitled: Reviewing 15+ Years of Accelerator Dividends: Innovation and Entrepreneurship Returns and a Roadmap for Future Success.

You can grab your own free copy through this link (https://bit.ly/15YearsOfAccelerators) and we’d welcome feedback and also recommendations on what I should write about next.